Friends

Sometimes when friends especially close friends/good friends think that they are such a
failure in their life, useless, good-for-nothing,loner, feel like dieing, no one cares for
them i feel like.. Kind of sad to see/hear that. Do they really really mean it? Maybe?
Yes,in times we do get setbacks and we feel we are a failure in life. That's usual.
But not one who always think they are a failure in life. What makes you thinks that you
are really a failure in your life? In life,it's better to be optimistic than pessimistic.
I bet everyone knew that.

Don't you agree?
Ya,i agree i get pessimistic in certain areas. But who don't?
In life, we always have to look forward to the future and not keep looking back to our past.
Maybe what makes you think you're a failure etc is because of some problems you have?
Family , friendship , relationship, studies , work problem etc etc
But who don't ? No one live a life so smoothly. Everyone will meet obstacles in their life.
You might say the main cause is your family problems,but the actual fact is how you see
and manage it.

I believe every family have their own problems.
Be it parents marriage, arguments with parents / siblings , stepmother/stepfather etc.
If you thinks that they really don't care about you ( which is unlikely ) ,there are still
friends out there.We don't need many friends in our life, but some true friends who
will be there for us when we need them will be enough. It's time you believe them .
Time to learn to step out of your comfort zone. I believe everyone out there will have
someone to care for them.
Especially your parents. Which parents do not love and care for their children?
Try putting yourself into their shoes.

Loner? Nah, i guess no.
What is your definition of 'loner' ? Do you totally have no friends? Not even one?
Have you ever seen a situation more worse than you?
Have you ever seen someone situation more worse than you?
Where people will shun away when seeing them?

Actually, we are very fortunate people. Don't you think so?
We are fit , we are healthy. We can walk, we can run , we can hop.
We have no major health problems.
We can see, we can smell,we can hear,we can taste etc.
We are not living in a third world country, our country is not having a war now.
We are not living in poverty. We have family and friends who care for us.
We can afford to study unlike other kids from other countries.
I believe there are many more reasons to think that we are fortunate people.
So maybe we should lessen our complains at times.

No use having so many friends out there but none of them will be there for you when
you need them. I'm not trying to say having many friends are bad, but what you really
need is some true friends to be there for you, lent you listening ears when you need
them. If this continues,i believe it may drive some nuts.
Try looking at the brighter side, no harm trying i believe?
If you thinks that is your character and attitude that makes you think in that way,
maybe changing a little will change the situation to the better?

Sweeties,it hurts me seeing you like this.
I will be there for you,remember this.
Don't keep everything to yourself okay?
=)